Scary? Sexy? Our anal region is our bodies' forbidden region that may or may not like to be violated. To some, it's an unwritten moral code. To others, it's a dirty little secret.
Like riding a bike, there takes a lot of skill deflowering a back door. As I've heard many times in conversation and in the bedroom, it's a whole lot tighter back there. It's fucking amazing what a man will want to do with his penis, isn't it?
Why do some of the broads hate the butt sex? Why do some prefer it? And how do I share this act of butt love?
Butt sex can be very pleasurable for ladies because the rectum shares a wall with the vagina, and the sexual nerves are closer on that side, which makes the sensation unique, stronger and orgasmic. Some of these classy ladies feel that it's taboo and something only done in those "Debbie Does Dallas" pornos. However, society today, anything goes, even getting it up the ass.
On the other hand, we're powerless. During butt sex, women hand their sexual power over to their partners. Men have the ability to prevent a woman's orgasms. The penis doesn't have to come into contact with all the girls' good stuff, which ultimately leaves her satisfaction in your hands. This can be a turn on or a turn off. Personally, I'm submissive in the bed, so an act like this would get me fucking excited. Otherwise, girl number 2 isn't so sure she wants to give up her butt freedom.
And of course, you can cause some damage. Oh yeah, men, that means you. You can cause our little assholes to bleed, rip and tear. Your overwhelming need to dominate, yes I know, so be careful inside our sacred hole. Keep in mind, that if you are ready to penetrate your little lady and she's not quite relaxed, you may end up finding some Stink on the end of your Pink. Get me?
Relax. Put lube to a good use.
And it can hurt. Sometimes we aren't exactly thrilled at the prospect of having something that feels like a solid frozen kielbasa shoved into our ass that only shares gifts with the toilet. You two should want it, should be curious about it. In all, sex should be fun. If it's not enjoyed the second or third time around, I'm guessing the ass is not your thing.
Now some broads are just as excited as you to be venturing into the butt. You have hit jackpot, two holes in one. And like me, she may even end up preferring it from behind. There is absolutely nothing hotter than a girl who wants it.
Starts slowly with your finger until the area feels comfortable. Once the lady feels at ease with that, apply plenty of lube and slowly inch by inch, till you ultimately penetrate her. An easy way to make her feel at ease is by rubbing her butt cheeks. Don't just head for the hole and ignore the rest. The point here is to have her rectal muscles relax so you can enter her more easily.
The more lube, the goddamn better. All kinds of lube are used for anal sex, from spit to Vaseline to high-tech silicone-based lubes. I suggest getting a high quality water-based lubricant, like AstroGlide or KY Jelly, available in any drug store.
The number one trick I can offer to more pleasurable experience is for the lady to get off before the actual act of anal. The whole body becomes less tense and makes the muscles 10x's more at ease.
And as great philosopher named Catra once said to me, "Stick it in my dirty ass."
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